I’m sorry I’ve been absent from this space for a while. I accepted a quick project with very imminent deadlines. Like today.
If you are new to this space, I am a freelance writer/editor. Under my given name, I write or edit books under contract. Lots of work for hire, but some royalty projects.
Speaking of which: over the last six months or so, I’ve slowly come to a revelation about my writing. Whether I wrote or not depended on what others thought. If I received rejections for a book I queried, I stopped writing other books in that series or genre. So after prayer one day (yes I pray), I asked myself, Do I love my writing regardless of whether or not I receive a contract or sell a book some other way?
The answer was no. 😥 It was too tied to the approval of others.
Back in the day, a friend and I wrote stories to entertain each other. When she moved away, I still wrote stories, this time to entertain myself. This was way before I even thought of querying publishers and agents. Back then I wrote by hand. Like these relics from a bygone era.
I have a drawer full of stories. I don’t have to care if anyone besides me (or you if you deciphered the tiny bit of writing on the photos) reads them or think they’re “good,” trendy, or old-fashioned. I enjoyed the journey of writing them. They’re like journals in a way—a path into what I was thinking about at the time. Feeling bored and couldn’t get to a library? I wrote a story. Disgruntled about a relationship? I wrote a story. No money to travel? I wrote a story.
I get that no one is an island and that publishing is a business. See paragraph one if you don’t believe that. As someone who has an editor (more than one in fact) for two projects, I understand the need to make money and pay rent because I made money. And this post is not about a refusal to improve my craft nor is it a denial of my desire to have stories I wrote read by others. I just want to love writing regardless of whether I have anyone’s approval or lack thereof. I want to get back to writing a story because I feel like doing it even if no one ever reads it.
Does that make sense?
Is there something you want to do that you like doing but stopped doing because you think no one else approves? If you’re brave enough, please comment below.
Person with a pen from wisegeek.org. Other photos by L. Marie.